TMM: A lonely job

“An artist is always alone – if he is an artist.” – Henry Miller

Writing is a lonely job, no doubt about it. And no matter how successful you might become, you’re still alone. It’s the inexorable truth of the writer’s condition: you sit at your desk, in an empty room or in the most crowded coffee shop, yet you’re alone. You just do your thing.

Of course, this poses a rather interesting question: if you spend that much time alone, how do you find stuff to write about?

I find that a lot of aspiring writers tend to obsesses about the what part of their craft, sometimes long before they even figure out the how part. I know I was like that. I wanted to find that brilliant, one of a kind idea… and I spent an awful lot of time searching for it, rummaging through my mind for something that kept running away from me.

It was there, but it wasn’t.

And I’m pretty sure when I say that no idea has ever come to me when I was purposefully searching for it. No, ideas came to me when I least expected them to, in the bus, or when talking to a friend on the phone.

The best of ideas came to me when I was as far away from a keyboard, a pen, and a paper as possible. The best ideas came to me in the middle of the night, in the form of a bizarre dream that lingered long after I’d open my eyes.

In my humble opinion, writing is not about finding something worth writing about, something no one else has ever thought of writing down, something innovative and brilliant and all that stuff. No, I believe it’s far more important to find something you care about so much, and yet you don’t entirely understand, that you have to write about it, in the hope of finding out more.

Big or small, interesting or not, the places and events and people that define who we are will always make good literature. At least.

Because, sadly, it’s not enough to be passionate about writing. We all are, otherwise we wouldn’t be spending so many hours of our lives doing it. But we need to live, to discover, to experiment.

And maybe it’s not about searching for something we care about so much that we have to write it down, but about that something finding us.

This is not a mad quest for original ideas, but just a really long road to self-discovery.

Who am I? is the most important question we can ask ourselves, and no matter the answer we might give ourselves at one point or another, we’ll never stop asking it.

And writing is just that. A way for us to discover who we are, and what our purpose is, and what are we going to do with the time we have.

Yes, writing is a lonely job, maybe the loneliest there is. It’s not spectator art, you can’t write with a crowd behind you, with people cheering and clapping like crazy.

And there’s one more thing about writing: that we can never be sure that our message, what we’re really trying to say, is ever going to reach the right people at the right time. Sometimes, some of our messages won’t reach anyone. But we never lose hope that, if we’re lucky enough, our words might reach someone exactly when they need to read them the most.

Ultimately, one of art’s many purposes is to make us feel less lonely because, in the end, we’re all utterly and inconsolably alone.


8 thoughts on “TMM: A lonely job

  1. very true. Writing is not done while sitting on a desk & holding a pen and paper in the hand. Writing needs the ideas & the brain can create the ideas anytime and anywhere. Ideas can’t come by scratching the head again & again.

  2. Yes, and there’s, at least for me, always a question of “outside influence”, sometimes, it spirals into paranoia and I’m afraid to touch any information in order to write “uninfluenced” work – me, not “the world”. So, loneliness, in sense for me, is a way to assure that it’s “my voice” on the paper. It’s ironic since writing is the way to discover and analyze the world around me.

  3. I think Dan Simmons does a masterful job of describing what it means to be a writer in his Hyperion Cantos through the character of his poet – Martin Silenus. Silenus speaks of being a poet as being the avatar for humanity. The requirements to be a good writer demand a constant state of attachment and detachment to the world and from the world, to the self and from the self just like you write about here. In a sense we aren’t in search of ideas as much as conduits for them, touching onto that eternal realm and pulling them into time.

  4. Came over for a read from Opher’s place. You’re right about the ideas. They pop in when least expected! I’m not so sure about being alone and ‘inconsolable’ – at least, not for me. Sometimes I yearn alone time – not for writing. Just to be. It nurtures, nourishes, recharges and refreshes me

  5. I enjoyed lots of these ideas in writing! Thanks for sharing. I think writers tend to be introverts, but I’m not certain. Introspective for sure. I think ideas are often discovered more than conjured. You don’t creat the idea, you find it or it finds you. Then you create the article conveying the idea. Writing, especially journaling, is a process, more of a journey then a destination. If you haven’t read it, I highly recommend Stephen King’s non-fiction book “On Writing.” Also, the book “Rest” by Alex Soojung-Kim Pang has insight to the creative aspect of writing.

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